FORGIVE
Resentment is a useless pursuit. It does not help you, it does not help the situation, and it does not help the people you resent. Resentment expands the damage that has been done and prolongs the pain that has been inflicted. And resentment often leads to new instances of hurtful behavior on the part of everyone involved.
The way to end the downward spiral of resentment is with forgiveness. Forgiveness frees you to move forward, unfettered by the burden of past wrongdoing.
Forgiveness does not mean that what happened was acceptable. Forgiveness simply enables you to completely, once and for all, let it go. In every life, there are plenty of opportunities for deep, abiding and destructive resentment. But there is nothing at all to be gained by spending your life filling up a mental warehouse with that pain.
Decide instead to quickly forgive. Choose to move forward, beyond the pain and into a world filled with positive possibilities. Don't waste your life on resentment when there is so much beauty, life and love to experience.
There is nothing to be gained from making life needlessly difficult with resentment. See the truth that life is beautiful. Align your energy and your actions with your very own expression of that truth. Let yourself be yourself, and the richness flows easily, effortlessly and naturally through every moment. Drop the resentment. Forgive. Don't waste your time reacting to somebody else's folly. Let yourself be yourself. And you'll be as rich as anyone can ever be.
Thank you for feeding my ego, i agree a ton with the words being said. In life though, alot of people act on hurt, and arent able to see the situation for what it is. You can forgive, but never forget. Forgiveness is hard, especially when you look at these people and still have hurt emotions from their actions. Love is painful, and when its not being done right it can cause alot of pain, to alot of people. The best advice I can give anyone is to follow their happiness, their intrinsic values will bring out their true character. I want my dreams so bad, so freaking bad! But, I made a decision 7 years ago ‘a young decision’, and now I have to live up to those responsibilities and be a mother. I have so much resentment for both my parents. So, I know if theres ONE thing I have to do, its be the best mother I can be with what I have been dealt in life. One thing I always keep in mind, is the thought that there is someone else who always has it worse. I know my life has been rock-bottom, but that also tells me I need to forgive myself for making those mistakes and see life as ‘theres no other way to go now, but up’
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If there are things in life that are happening now that we don’t like or have happened and maybe have left their effect on us, get over it. It had to happen that way otherwise it wouldn’t had happened. Life has a plan for every one of us. So be brave and get over it.
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